For a normal density function $f,$ if you have a grid of points X
and corresponding density values $y = f(x),$
then you can use numerical integration to find $\mu$ and $\sigma.$ [See Note (2) at the end.]
If you have many realizations $X_i$ from the distribution, you can estimate the population mean $\mu$ by the sample mean $\bar X$ and the population SD $\sigma$ by the sample SD $S.$
Another possibility is to use a kernel density estimator (KDE) of $f$ based on a sufficiently large
sample. In R the procedure density
gives points $(x, y)$ that can be used to plot a density estimator.
set.seed(718)
x = rnorm(100, 50, 7)
mean(x); sd(x)
[1] 50.62287
[1] 6.443036
hist(x, prob=T, col="skyblue2")
rug(x); lines(density(x), col="red")

In R, the KDE consists of 512 points with values summarized as below:
density(x)
Call:
density.default(x = x)
Data: x (100 obs.); Bandwidth 'bw' = 2.309
x y
Min. :31.36 Min. :1.974e-05
1st Qu.:41.69 1st Qu.:3.239e-03
Median :52.03 Median :2.371e-02
Mean :52.03 Mean :2.417e-02
3rd Qu.:62.36 3rd Qu.:4.378e-02
Max. :72.70 Max. :5.566e-02
You can estimate $\mu$ and $\sigma$ corresponding to the KDE as follows:
xx = density(x)$x
yy = density(x)$y # (xx, yy) is KDE plot point
sum(xx*yy)/sum(yy)
[1] 50.62329 # aprx pop mean = 50
sum((xx-50.62)^2 * yy)/sum(yy)
[1] 46.42294 # aprx pop variance = 49
sqrt(sum((xx-50.62)^2 * yy)/sum(yy))
[1] 6.813438 # aprx pop SD = 7
Because $\bar X$ and $S$ are sufficient statistics for $\mu$ and $\sigma,$
it is hard to imagine that $\hat \mu$ and $\hat \sigma$ re-claimed from
a KDE (based on data) would be systematically better than the sample mean $\bar X = 50.62$ and SD $S = 6.44.$
I mention the KDE method because it seems possibly related to your question.
Notes: (1) Of course there are also methods for estimating $\bar X$ and $S$ from a histogram, but they can be very inaccurate for small samples.
(2) Here is a numerical evaluation of $\mu \approx \int_0^{100} x\varphi(x,50,7)\, dx,$
using the sum of areas of 1000 rectangles.
m = 1000
w = (100-0)/m
x = seq(0+w/2, 100-w/2, len=m)
f = x*dnorm(x, 50, 7)
sum(w*f)
[1] 50 # mu
f2 = (x-50)^2*dnorm(x,50,7)
sum(w*f2)
[1] 49 # sigma^2