I want to know can we approximate the covariance matrix of a random vector by making use of a probability limit.
Define the linear regression model in matrix form as $$ \mathbf{Y} = \mathbf{X} \beta + \varepsilon, $$ where the variance of $\varepsilon$ is $\sigma$.
I am interested in approximating $E[\text{Cov}[A|\mathbf{X}]]$ defined by
$$ E[\text{Cov}[\hat \beta|\mathbf{X}]] = E\bigg[\frac{\sigma^2}{n} \bigg(\frac{\mathbf{X}^T\mathbf{X}}{n}\bigg)^{-1}\bigg] = \frac{\sigma^2}{n} E\bigg[\bigg(\frac{\mathbf{X}^T\mathbf{X}}{n}\bigg)^{-1}\bigg]. $$
The probability limit of $\mathbf{X}^T\mathbf{X}/n$ is $$ \text{plim}_{n\to \infty} \bigg(\frac{\mathbf{X}^T\mathbf{X}}{n}\bigg) = Q, $$ where $Q$ is a constant positive definite matrix (see Econometric Analysis by William Greene, eq. 4-19). So the probability limit of the inverse $(\mathbf{X}^T\mathbf{X}/n)^{-1}$ is $$ \text{plim}_{n\to \infty} \bigg(\frac{\mathbf{X}^T\mathbf{X}}{n}\bigg)^{-1} = Q^{-1}. $$
For large $n$, I am interested in approximating $E[\text{Cov}[\hat \beta|\mathbf{X}]]$ by using the probability limit, that is, saying something like $$ E[\text{Cov}[\hat \beta|\mathbf{X}]] \approx \frac{\sigma^2}{n} Q^{-1}, \quad \quad \text{or} \quad \quad E[\text{Cov}[\hat \beta|\mathbf{X}]] \sim \frac{\sigma^2}{n} Q^{-1}. $$ I have various questions regarding the validity of doing this.
What kind of error are we making if we can do this? Is there a way to account for the error? Is this a situation where we have an approximation that 'holds with high probability'? If we can indeed make this approximation, how do we rigorously state it mathematically (precisely what does $\approx$ or $\sim$ signify)?