That $X-Y$ should be symmetrically distributed for iid $X,Y$ is obvious simply by interchanging the roles of $X$ and $Y$ -- informally we might argue
Let $Z=X-Y$ have distribution $F$. The roles of which observation was called $X$ and which $Y$ is arbitrary; therefore $-Z=Y-X$ must have the same distribution. If $-Z$ and $Z$ have the same distribution then the distribution is symmetric (about $0$).
However I have a vague recollection of having encountered an odd counterexample at some point (I wonder if it might perhaps have been in the Counterexamples book by Romano and Siegel).
Is there some subtlety in the above outlined argument (symmetry in the roles of $X$ and $Y$ implies symmetry of the distribution function) that goes astray in some edge case, or is the implied more formal version of the argument solid? (indicating that I am simply misremembering the notional existence of an exception)
I can't see any obvious way to break it but "I don't see how to do it" doesn't mean much as an argument. I suppose that it may be I have misrecalled some detail; perhaps the exception actually resulted because there wasn't independence in the original formulation (in which case I believe I could find an exception myself). [Edit: Indeed, I have done so now]
I expect the answer is "no, you're misremembering, obviously it's symmetric" but this nags at me now and then and I worry my notions are flawed in some way.