I undersrand that a probability space is composed of a sample space $\Omega$ containing all possible outcomes of an experiment, an event space $\mathcal F$ containing all events of interest (e.g. the power set of $\Omega$) and a probability measure $\mathbb P$ that assigns a probability $p$ to each event in $\mathcal F$.
We say two events $A$ and $B$ in $\mathcal F$ are disjoint iff $A\cap B = \emptyset$
On the other hand, two events are said to be independent iff $\mathbb P(A\cap B) = \mathbb P(A) \mathbb P(B)$. Meaning that additional knowledge of one event does not change the probability of occurrence of the other event. But I can't seem to fully wrap my mind around this. What does independent mean here? How can two events have a nonzero intersection and yet have nothing to do with one another? Some people say it means the state space can be factorized into a cartesian product, which I don't really get.
For example: given $\Omega =\{1,2,3,4\}$ how can one intuitively realise that the events $A=\{1,2\}$, $B=\{1,3\}$ and $C=\{1,4\}$ are only pairwise independent and not independent?