Here is how to calculate the simple IRF.
The idea is to compare a base case where the innovations are
$$(\varepsilon_{1,t+1},\varepsilon_{1,t+2},...)=(0,0,...)$$
$$(\varepsilon_{2,t+1},\varepsilon_{2,t+2},...)=(0,0,...)$$
to an alternative case where the innovations are
$$(\varepsilon_{1,t+1},\varepsilon_{1,t+2},...)=(1,0,...)$$
$$(\varepsilon_{2,t+1},\varepsilon_{2,t+2},...)=(0,0,...)$$
for example (corresponding to a one-time shock of size 1 to $y_1$).
In a VAR(1) system, the $y_1$'s corresponding to the base case will be
$y_{1,t+1} = a_{11} y_{1,t} + a_{12} y_{2,t} + 0$
$y_{1,t+2} = a_{11} y_{1,t+1} + a_{12} y_{2,t+1} + 0 = a_{11} (a_{11} y_{1,t} + a_{12} y_{2,t} + 0) + a_{12} (a_{21} y_{1,t} + a_{22} y_{2,t} + 0) + 0$
$y_{1,t+3} = ...$
The $y_1$'s corresponding to the alternative case will be
$y_{1,t+1} = a_{11} y_{1,t} + a_{12} y_{2,t} + 1$
$y_{1,t+2} = a_{11} y_{1,t+1} + a_{12} y_{2,t+1} + 0 = a_{11} (a_{11} y_{1,t} + a_{12} y_{2,t} + 1) + a_{12} (a_{21} y_{1,t} + a_{22} y_{2,t} + 0) + 0$
$y_{1,t+3} = ...$
The impulse-responses for $y_1$ will be the difference between the alternative case and the base case, that is,
$ir_{1,t+1} = 1$
$ir_{1,t+2} = a_{11}$
$ir_{1,t+3} = ...$
Analogously, you could obtain the impulse responses of a one-time shock of size 1 to $y_1$ on $y_2$. They would be
$ir_{2,t+1} = 0$
$ir_{2,t+2} = a_{21}$
$ir_{2,t+3} = ...$
There must be a more compact way of writing it out, but I wanted to be clear and show it step by step.
Extending this to different kinds of shocks (e.g. unit shock to both $y_1$ and $y_2$ at time $t+1$ followed by zero shocks afterwards) should be straightforward.
Note: it might be more common to consider a shock at time $t$ rather than $t+1$, but that does not change the essence.