I feel most answers are referring to properties, rather than physical existence.
Being cloudy, being a complete house, being a pandemic; these are states of being. States most certainly are nonbinary spectra, in every single case. Alive, dead, me, you, all are states of being, and there are fuzzy grey boundaries over even the most apparently-binary things.
Similarly, concepts can exist or not on a spectrum. "Tomato as a vegetable"? "Invisible pink unicorn"? "February 31st"?
In a philosophical sense, then, it's possible for things to have an ambiguous state of being/unbeing.
For things which have physical existence, though... I can't think of a moment of creation which is grey, but can we find a point at which a thing falls into a grey area of unbeing?
Certainly we can transform things between two states: grind a stone into sand and at some undefined point it stops being a stone and becomes "all sand", but exactly which swipe of the grinder finished that task may not be rigorously definable.
But what about transforming a physical, tangible object between the state of being and non-being, rather than the state of being a complete thing to being something else?
We can burn it, of course, but that's just another conversion between states. It continues to exist, just as gas and ash and photons and thermal energy.
In a physical-object sense, then, so long as we don't define photons and energy as things that have being, it may be possible to have an ambiguous state of being.
Antimatter annihilation? An electron and a positron meet. They collide. But even here, they don't merely cancel out leaving nothing in their place: they transform into a quasi-atom of positronium, then annihilate into two or three gamma-ray photons.
We know that "energy cannot be created/destroyed", and we know that mass and energy are interchangeable from e=mc^2. So we can't make something out of nothing, or vice versa.
If we accept photons and energy as things that have being, it's not possible to convert something into any ambiguous state of not-something.
We could extend our concept of unbeing to mean "not in this universe any more", in which case, we could have a case of ambiguity where we have a Thing that's fallen within the event horizon of a black hole (where the Thing can no longer affect or be detected by the universe) but has not yet had time to reach the singularity inside the black hole (past which the Thing is no longer in the coordinate space of the universe).
That's the best I can think of, but I'm interested to see what others find.