I'll try showing $\beta_k=\tilde\beta_k$ by expanding out the relevant portions of the proof of the universal coefficient theorem.
The first thing is let's define $A_k$ instead to be the $\mathbb{Z}$-valued matrix for $\partial_k:C_k\to C_{k-1}$, with respect to the basis of oriented simplices. Assume the simplicial complex has only finitely many simplices for this matrix to be finite-dimensional. Let $\tilde{A}_k$ be the same matrix, but thought of as being $\mathbb{R}$-valued. So, using $\operatorname{rank}$ to mean free rank,
\begin{align}
\beta_k&=\operatorname{rank}(\ker A_k/\operatorname{im} A_{k+1})\\
\tilde{\beta}_k&=\dim(\ker \tilde{A}_k/\operatorname{im} \tilde{A}_{k+1})=\dim\ker\tilde{A}_k-\dim\operatorname{im}\tilde{A}_{k+1}
\end{align}
(where the latter equality is just the rank-nullity theorem).
A main way to change coefficients in algebra is tensor products. $\mathbb{Z}^n\otimes\mathbb{R}\cong\mathbb{R}^n$. If you are not familiar with the concept, just take this axiomatically for now. One can say that $\tilde{A}_k=A_k\otimes \mathbb{R}$ to represent the change of the coefficient ring. Tensor product properties:
- $\mathbb{Z}\otimes\mathbb{R}\cong\mathbb{R}$.
- $(\mathbb{Z}/n\mathbb{Z})\otimes\mathbb{R}\cong 0$.
- If $A,B$ are abelian groups, $(A\oplus B)\otimes\mathbb{R}\cong (A\otimes\mathbb{R})\oplus(B\otimes\mathbb{R})$.
- So: If $A$ is a finitely generated abelian group, $A\otimes\mathbb{R}\cong \mathbb{R}^{\operatorname{rank} A}$.
One part to this is that we have a chain complex with $\mathbb{Z}$-coefficients
$$\cdots\xrightarrow{A_{k+1}} \mathbb{Z}^{n_k}\xrightarrow{A_k} \mathbb{Z}^{n_{k-1}}\xrightarrow{A_{k-1}}\cdots$$
which can be converted to $\mathbb{R}$-coefficients by tensoring with $\mathbb{R}$ to get
$$\cdots\xrightarrow{\tilde A_{k+1}} \mathbb{R}^{n_k}\xrightarrow{\tilde A_k} \mathbb{R}^{n_{k-1}}\xrightarrow{\tilde A_{k-1}}\cdots$$
Now, the difficulty is to find a way to relate the homology groups for each of these chain complexes. Let $H_k$ denote the $k$th homology group of the $C_k$ complex. By definition of $H_k$, there are short exact sequences
$$0\to \operatorname{im} A_{k+1}\hookrightarrow \ker A_k\to H_k\to 0$$
Since $\operatorname{im} A_{k+1}$ and $\ker A_k$ are free abelian groups, $(\operatorname{im} A_{k+1})\otimes\mathbb{R}\cong \operatorname{im}\tilde A_{k+1}$ and $(\ker A_k)\otimes\mathbb{R}\cong \ker \tilde A_k$, and the inclusion map tensored with $\mathbb{R}$ remains injective. This ends up meaning there is a short exact sequence
$$0 \to \operatorname{im}\tilde A_{k+1} \hookrightarrow \ker \tilde A_k \to H_k\otimes \mathbb{R}\to 0$$
By the first isomorphism theorem, $H_k\otimes \mathbb{R}\cong \ker \tilde A_k / \operatorname{im}\tilde A_{k+1}$. This latter quotient is the definition of the homology with real coefficients, so $$\tilde\beta_k=\dim(H_k\otimes\mathbb{R})=\dim(\mathbb{R}^{\operatorname{rank} H_k})=\operatorname{rank} H_k=\beta_k$$